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The New Era is Here: Letting go of Fear Based Separation

The New Era is Here: Letting go of Fear Based Separation

As January begins and we slowly make our way into February I can already feel the momentum starting to roll in a new direction.

For many of us, 2025 was a year of refinement, slow integration and being shown the parts of ourselves that needed attention in order to make 2026 a year of expansion, creativity and really... inevitability.

The word inevitability feels strong for me this year.

It's that feeling that says:

  • I've done the work
  • I'm not afraid to move with certainty
  • I know what I'm capable of

...and all there's left to do is show up with full trust that the time is now.

When I say a New Era is here, what I mean is this:

Across 300+ clients and personal connections I've seen clearly that there's a grand awakening in full force, a slow expansion of awareness that began to build in each person.

An awareness that the old way of living, building, creating and achieving is just not working anymore.

I've seen business owners, who have built their companies to multiple millions a year, stop what they're doing to slow down, let go of big unnecessary teams, re-evaluate their direction in not only business but in life and ask the question "why am I actually doing any of this?"

The old era of achieving more and building bigger just to look successful in the eyes of others is coming to an end.

When our core driver as humans is to achieve for the sake of achievement alone, it doesn't feed the soul, it feeds the ego mind.

And the mind is never satisfied, the goal post just moves.

For me, wisdom is understanding the lessons that others on the path have gone through and saving myself time and energy by learning the lesson they're learning, without having to make the mistake myself.

Now, often times we still need to learn our own lessons no matter how much we learn from others but that doesn't mean we can't stay one step ahead.

When I see business owners intentionally slowing down, re-evaluating their direction and questioning the emotional driver behind their actions... it means one simple thing.

We're evolving as humans, we're raising in consciousness, we're moving closer to a life that is focused on satisfying the soul, not just the ego mind.

When a business owner who's successful on paper begins to ask the deeper questions because he/she now sees there's a deeper truth trying to be seen around them, it's like their soul, the inner voice is calling them to listen (whether they see it that way or not)

And the only way to do that is to stop what they're doing and re-evaluate.

I've been there myself and it's a confusing time.

From a high level this business owner is letting go of an old fear based way of thinking to raise their consciousness.

Through my lens raising in consciousness means the default emotional state in each and every person goes from "fear based separation" to more of a "love based unity".

Fear based separation looks like people in competition, people are shamed for speaking outside the media narrative, content creation is about seeking validation, men and women feel disconnected from eachother, relationships feel shallow or toxic, making money is about looking successful in the eyes of others, manipulating in sales or marketing to "make a sale" or needing to have control over people.

All natural tendencies for every human, no judgement.

Love based unity looks like people in collaboration, alternative perspectives are welcomed, content creation is about spreading a powerful message, men and women feel connected with one another, relationships are deep and healthy, making money is about living your authentic purpose, creative service and building a relationship with the life force energy of abundance.

Fear based separation is like our shadow while Love based unity is more like our highest expression of god, our higher self.

Love based unity satisfies the soul, not from what you inevitably achieve but from how you do it.

It's a different emotional state that produces long term sustainable fruit - money, connection, health, purpose and happiness.

Not to mention your minute to minute experience of daily life drastically improves.

You feel joy in the moment, not some day. You feel driven to express your gifts and talents into the world naturally. You're more connected to people around you, instead of needing dopamine to fill a void.

and all that is available to you now.

I'm not here to say we're getting rid of fear based separation entirely this year, it's part of our human experience for now and there's many nuances to the transition thats happening.

The transition from a fear based separation to love based unity is where the identity starts to crumble because the identity is built within the ego mind.

the mental story of "this is just how I do things" will have to be let go.

The ego mind will fight tooth and nail to keep the old paradigm alive, this is where we activate our freewill.

We have a choice.

Choose the old paradigm, or step into the new.

It's simple but not easy.

Many will just choose to ignore this and go back to whats familiar.

This New Era is our opportunity to make a new choice.

Are my actions bringing me deeper into Fear based separation or Love based unity?

How do you know? look at the emotion driving your action.

We can't answer that question if we're "doing" at every second.

When we stop, slow down, we listen, we feel and we re-build out intuitive senses that lead us to the biggest breakthroughs.

If you want, you could call it your unfair advantage (not that you need one)

For me, and what I observed in others, 2025 was the time for slowing down to listen.

Now, I feel we're in the era of expansion, but not from urgency or fear but from precision, alignment and on a grander scale... Love based unity.

I'm excited for this year,

are you?

p.s To help integrate everything from 2025 I've been swimming twice every day in the ocean, it's been powerful. Sending you love.